Walk With Dignity and Grace

This blog isn't just about style and how to look presentable. It's also about walking with dignity and grace, which have now become so obsolete and nonexistent amongst the modern women. Style isn't just about the clothes you wear but how you wear them and how you carry yourself. In this blog post I will discuss some life lessons that I believe women need to start following in their daily life. I want women to be happy and be happier faster. I want women to avoid mistakes and lies that have been fed to women. Unfortunately, these lies have made women statically the unhappiest they've ever been, there are many ways to be dignified and graceful, but these are just a few ways to start your journey in walking with dignity and grace.

Respect yourself enough to dress modestly and be polite to people. You don't have to get what you want in this world by being rude, cursing and giving everyone attitude. That doesn't mean you should be a doormat because there will be times when you'll have to put your foot down. However, that isn't something you'll always need to do. You'll be surprised how positively people will treat you just by being pleasant. Be pleasant with your husband or the man in your life and that will go a long way in a long and successful relationship. No man who works all day wants to come home to a wife who always has an attitude. Not even the women in your life will want to deal with your attitude either, keep that in mind. Treat other people the way you want to be treated especially your husband and your kids.

Don't obsess over the little things in life. Understand that life is bumpy, the road isn't easy, everything requires hard work, and nobody owes you anything. Hard work goes along way not only to achieve your goals but to keep what you've earned. Once, you achieved something you have to work to keep it, whatever it may be. It could be a job, a business, a family, your relationship with GOD, the body you've been exercising for and just about anything. Always remember reaching your goals are one thing but you also need to work hard to keep what's most precious to you.

Be patient with everything, I know that it can be easier said than done at times, but patience is a virtue. You don't want to rush into anything because it may not come the way you want so you need to practice patience. Being patient with people is also crucial, hard but it is beneficial to wait for someone especially if you know they are worth the wait.

Listen and think before you speak. Listen to what people have to say and why they think or feel the way they do. I know, again easier said than done but it is possible. When you're having an issue with someone or a disagreement listen, assess, and think before you respond so you can respond in a way that will make them understand. This is beneficial if you feel that you are in the right and to understand the other person you need to listen first and take what they have to say into consideration. However, if you're not in the right you need to listen as to why you're not right and accept the fact that you aren't and own up to it.

Ladies, admit when you're wrong especially in a relationship. Let me tell you something over the years listening to many couples and their arguments more than half the time the woman is wrong. However, women don't like to admit when they're wrong and act tend to act extremely childish. This behavior is not attractive, nor should anyone be forced to tolerate your behavior. Unfortunately, women have been told to exude a certain attitude to be seen a certain way. A true feminine, dignified, graceful woman admits when she's wrong. Don't think because he puts you in your place that he's being sexist or mean. That couldn't be further from the truth. A lot of women are rowdy, disrespectful, and rude and you need to be told the truth. If you're as strong as you say you are then accepting the truth. Be accountable and take ownership. Accountability has become kryptonite to women, you need to be held accountable and take responsibility. Especially if you want to be taken seriously.

One of the biggest lies is that men don't want women to succeed. It's not that they don't, however, so many women refuse to be held accountable refuse actual equal treatment and prefer special treatment. That is why men don't take women seriously. One more point I want to make is reflection. Ladies you need to start reflecting on your actions and learn from YOUR past mistakes, especially past mistakes you made in a relationship. Reflection and accountability are like kryptonite to women and this needs to stop.

I don't want women realizing their lifelong mistakes when it's too late. People always say, "it's never too late" but yes you can be too late. Tomorrow is not guaranteed and sometimes people get fed up and just don't want to listen to you or deal with you anymore. As women these behaviors can lead to a dark and lonely path. A path that can prevent us from being in an amazing relationship with a great man. Stay graceful, dignified, and feminine.