How to Rediscover Elegance in Your Everyday Wardrobe?!

Faith and Femininity
Dec 3, 2024
7 min read

Updated: Dec 6, 2024

Currently our society is so fixated with everything being so fast paced, many people are prioritizing comfort and convenience over elegance even in the workplace. In today's world many people reach for super casual wear, like sweatpants and sneakers, which can lead to a more mundane style. A style that has so many people looking so miserable and feeling like life isn’t worth living. Which leads me to ask, can anyone honestly say they look and feel good dressed like they just rolled out of bed? The answer is most likely no. However, there is a simple solution, and that is rediscovering elegance in your daily outfits. Which doesn’t require a complete wardrobe change by the way. Instead, it’s about rethinking how you use what you already own. This post will give you practical tips and strategies to help you incorporate elegance into your everyday wardrobe with little to minimal changes.

Understanding the Essence of Everyday Elegance

Elegance is often seen as something exclusive to formal gatherings or fashion week. However, elegance can thrive in our daily routines. Many of you may not know this but people used to get dressed up even if people were coming over to your house. Men used to do labor work in slacks and a button down. Women did house work all dressed up. However, the lazier society became the lazier the fashion world became as well. Allow me to let you in on a little secret. It’s not just about the clothes you wear; it’s about how you wear them. Confidence, grace, and a touch of subtlety are what truly define elegance. After all this mentality was normal for many years it’s only until recently people have thrown elegance out and chose comfort and frumpy. A style that hasn't done anyone any good.

Finding the right mix of comfort and sophistication is essential. For instance, consider how you might elevate a simple outfit with thoughtful styling. You should be able to know how to dress for every occasion and outing.

The Power of Wardrobe Essentials and Accessories

An amazing way to enhance your style is by curating a collection of timeless wardrobe essentials over time. An all round wardrobe takes time and effort to build. It doesn't happen overnight. One way is to buy what you love and not just what you like. If you don't like it in the store you won't like it sitting in your closet because it will just sit in your closet. By investing in high-quality, versatile pieces you will build a solid foundation for any outfit. Here are some essentials to consider:

Classic White Shirt: This versatile piece can transition from casual to formal with little to minimal effort. It pairs well with jeans, skirts, or tailored trousers. It also goes well under a casual or tailored blazer.
Tailored Trousers: Look for trousers that fit well without being restrictive. Properly tailored trousers can elevate your look for work or social occasions. Contrary to popular belief not every trouser is meant for every shape. Knowing your shape is key to knowing which trouser to buy.
Little Black Dress (LBD): The LBD is a versatile piece that works for everything from dinner dates to parties. You can change up the look with different accessories. It is also a piece that can go from work to a night out instantly.
Quality Outerwear: A sleek blazer or coat can complete any outfit and turn a basic ensemble into something polished. Look for a quality coat and blazer that can be worn for years to come.
Nude Heels: It has been said over and over that shoes make the outfit and while yes that is true a pair of nude heels will go with anything. Heels in general elongate the leg and round out the butt giving a better frame.
Structured Handbag: The handbag doesn't have to be big but it should fit your essentials while completing the outfit and giving it a chic, effortless, and feminine look.
A Pencil Skirt: Nothing says classic and feminine like a pencil skirt. A pencil skirt can be worn with flats, heels, or boots and can be worn from day to night as well.
A Silk Scarf: If you really want to take this up a notch then invest in a silk scarf and wear it with your white blouse, tailored trousers, and your blazer and no matter what the trends are you will always look stylish and classy.
Simple Jewelry: Your jewelry doesn't have to be loud or extravagant but it can be simple and elegant. Take a pearl necklace it can either be a whole pearl necklace or one single pearl on a thin chain adding to the elegance and simplicity of the outfit. The same with stud earrings. A simple pair of earrings can go a long way.

These essentials can easily be combined with trendier pieces or casual items, offering endless styling possibilities.

Color and Fabric Choices

When aiming for elegance, the colors and fabrics you choose matter greatly. Now the typical answer for which colors to look for are neutral shades like beige, navy, or classic black that serve as elegant backdrops for your outfits. For a touch of softness, earthy tones and muted pastels can also exude sophistication. However, those colors don't work for everyone. If you haven't had a color analysis already I strongly urge you get one. Knowing what colors look best on you is essential. It will save you time and money. You will no longer look at a wardrobe in which you look at in dread and can't quite point out what the problem is. Often times the problem, are the colors you're wearing. The wrong colors will drain you, age you, and make you think you need to wear makeup when in fact the colors you're wearing aren't meant for you anyway. Getting a color analysis also goes into the makeup you should wear and even jewelry like gold or silver. Not everything works on everyone and it's important to know that. One of the reasons people used to look so glamorous on a daily basis is because they didn't just throw anything on they wore what they knew looked the best on them.

Fabric choice influences the overall appearance of your outfit. Natural materials like silk, wool, cotton, and linen not only drape beautifully but are also comfortable to wear. A silk blouse, for example, can instantly elevate a pair of jeans, enhancing your entire look. While a fabric like tweed blazer can make you look preppy and stylish while making your outfit look more expensive than it actually is.

Emphasizing Fit

No matter how fashionable or expensive an outfit may be, if it doesn’t fit well, it won’t look good. I can not emphasize this enough but it doesn’t matter what the current trend is, if it doesn’t suit your body shape it won't look good and you won't feel good. You need to pay close attention to how your clothing fits your body. Wearing a tailored outfit enhances your natural shape and gives a more polished appearance.

Consider visiting a tailor to adjust pieces for a perfect fit. Small modifications, like altering sleeve lengths or adjusting pant hems, can dramatically elevate your outfits.

Creating a Signature Style

Elegance connects with individuality. When you're incorporating elegance in your everyday outfits, focus on developing a signature style that represents who you are. However, this doesn’t mean you must stick to one look; instead, it's about curating a personal aesthetic that reflects your unique taste.

Ask yourself these questions:

What colors look best on me?
What is my body shape and what silhouettes look best on me and make me feel good instead of bad?
Are there particular patterns or textures that look better on me than others?

By identifying what you love and what looks good on you, you can select outfits that feel elegant and true to your personality.

The Importance of Presentation

Elegance extends beyond clothes; it includes how you carry yourself and how you care for your well-being. Contrary to popular belief and what makes us feel good, we do judge a book by it's cover. One of the reasons is because the way you carry yourself, what you wear, and how you take care of your self is a general reflection of who who you are. Engaging in self-care—be it nourishing your skin, maintaining an active lifestyle, or taking time to relax—can greatly enhance your overall sense of well-being. Don't misunderstand me, I'm not for hours and hours being spent on a home spa only focusing on you but to actually take the time to take care of yourself and nourish your body and mind. When you feel good about yourself, that confidence reflects in how you wear your clothes.

Always have your hair done. That is one of the ways to look the most elegant in the most inexpensive way. Whether it's straight, curly, or wavy, add a few products for shine and maybe volume and you will always look good.

Another tip is to always have your nails done. Either painted and polished or they can be cut, filed, buffed, shined, and add a clear top coat and you will still look elegant. While shoes may make the outfit but your hair and nails can also cheapen a look.

Confidence is Your Best Accessory

Ultimately, confidence is the cornerstone of elegance. Confidence not arrogance is the key. It's not just the clothes you wear it's how you wear them. The best outfit won’t shine if you don’t wear it with assurance. Stand tall, keep good posture, and embrace your unique style. Your confidence will radiate elegance, regardless of what you wear.

A Fresh Start Awaits

Rediscovering elegance in your everyday wardrobe is actually very simple and even enjoyable. By focusing on wardrobe essentials, fit, thoughtful accessories, and your unique style, you can effortlessly incorporate glamour into your daily life. While quality is important and it's more about quality than quantity you also have to remember, it’s not about how much you spend, but how you express your individuality through your choices.

Don't just sit there and whine that you have nothing to wear. Get up and start exploring your wardrobe and bring those classic pieces back into the limelight. Your hidden glamour is just waiting to be revealed, one elegant outfit at a time.