What Do Secular Traditional Women and New Age Christian Women Have in Common With Liberal Women?

As conservative women and more in particular as Christian women, we are supposed to be different from not only secular women but especially from secular women that identify as feminists as well. However, in the past 60-plus years, the differences seem too far and few in between. No matter what the majority of the secular society thinks the Bible doesn’t change therefore God's word will never change. Many people are under the impression that the word of God has to make some leeway for the modern society. As oppose to the people standing firm in the face of those who openly mock God and disobey his commandments. This applies to women who claim to be Christian nowadays and often have more in common with secular women who claim to be traditional. Dare I even suggest have a lot more common with left-leaning women who consider themselves to be feminists.

Anyone who actually follows the Bible and doesn't believe that the parts of the Bible that mention the roles of men and women are just filler knows that feminism is designed to go against God's natural order. Feminism is a rejection of patriarchy plain and simple. If you're a conservative but call yourself a Christian and still go by a lot feminist beliefs can you really call yourself a Christian? If the Bible states that it's God over Christ, Christ over man, man over women, and women over children and you're fighting with this concept and going with the feminist notion that you ought to be equal, are you different from a feminist? The feminist version of equality leads to the woman running the house, disrespecting their husbands, and putting their feelings above what is best for the family. If this describes you then you are no different than feminists.

Many women who call themselves conservative or traditional but aren’t Christian are also no different from feminists. Oftentimes these women will get married without changing their last names, prioritize their career, have strangers or their parents raising their children, don't submit to their husbands, and feel the need to constantly be masculine. These women are also no different than feminists. These women are often found in the conservative political space, the same political space that is supposedly too harsh for women. Well maybe the political scene wasn't made for women to begin with.

Secular "conservative and traditional" women, new age Christian women, and feminists have very few differences. When women demanded to enter men's spaces they supposedly wanted to be treated equally. However, when women do get the same harsh treatment as men by other men, the men are often labeled misogynists, sexist, and chauvinists. Despite the fact that they're giving these women the treatment they have whined and moaned for, for years. Often times the new age Christian women and secular conservative women have this mentality as well. They complain about modern feminism but often praise old feminists. Despite the fact that it's all the same diabolical nonsense. Many times, these women will often expect the man to do everything and take all the responsibility and accountability while refusing to be held accountable themselves. These same women will often shame men for not catering to their wants, just like liberal feminists will often shame men for not catering to their selfish wants as well. To all three groups of women, it's always the man's fault, and women are always absolved of all blame no matter the circumstance, and if these women were the cause of the issues.

For example, take an old show like Bewitched. She was supposed to be a traditional housewife, as well willing to make her husband happy and never wanted to keep secrets from him. But was she really? Think about the very first episode and then go from there. First, Samantha meets Darrin Stephens in a typical boy meets girl kind of way. They start dating and eventually they get married. However, Samantha had a secret and was eager to tell her husband that she was a witch because she believed married people shouldn’t have secrets. Sounds good, right? After all, she wants to be honest with him. There was only one problem; they were already married, and she married him under false pretenses. She started off by keeping a secret from him. Then, after they married, she wanted to be miss honesty. That was a clear manipulation tactic. Of course, being the nice guy he was and because he genuinely loved her, stayed with her. However, throughout the show, he didn't want her using her powers, and the show kind of made it seem like he was the bad guy. Was he really the bad guy? After all, she wasn't honest with him before they got married, and her family especially her mother, did go out of her way to make his life miserable. For no reason other than that he was a mortal. Samantha, despite knowing what her mother was doing to him, hardly ever stood up for her husband.

There was even an episode where Samantha's mother, Endora, tried to manipulate a past sequence of events, in which if Darrin had known that Samantha was a witch, he wouldn't have married her. This made Samantha very upset. But think about this for a second was it fair for her to be upset? She started off her marriage with a lie and expected him to be okay with it and with her family, despite their constant interfering, messing up his business at times, and making him look foolish. Manipulation was a constant theme throughout many old shows that paved the way for more feminist themes. Many women don't believe they are being manipulative despite the fact that they keep secrets from their men and get upset when they find out the man has kept secrets from them. This leads to another theme that secular "traditional conservative," new age christian women, and liberal feminists women have in common, which is deflection and projection.

When women know they're losing an argument, they often project what they've done wrong and deflect from the situation to avoid any kind of accountability. Women will often accuse men of being controlling when in fact they are projecting their own behavior because they want to control and manipulate the situation or an argument. They often deflect when they realize they have been figured out. I've seen men ask simple questions that need answers, but women often get upset. A question such as, "why are women eager to lock a man down and get married, but they never want to have sex afterward?" The woman will often ask, "So what are you trying to say, you didn't want to get married?" They know that's not what he was saying, but they deflect to make the man out to be the bad guy to avoid taking accountability. They don't take their vows seriously, especially if they call themselves Christians. If these new age Christians actually picked up their Bibles and read them, they would know their body is not their own after marriage and they have to have sex with their husbands. Sex is not a weapon to be used against your spouse.

Accountability is another thing all three groups of women have in common. Or should I say lack of accountability. Accountability has become kryptonite to women. They all scream we want to be treated equally, but when they are treated equal by being held accountable, they revert to their manipulation and the "I'm a weak woman tactic unable to know what they're doing."

Feminists themes, such as the rejection of patriarchy and the rejection of their husband’s leadership, have played a prominent role in all three groups of women. I've heard many so-called conservative women use the same rhetoric as feminists. They call themselves strong and independent women capable of "going hard." Many of these women refuse to change their last names, devote their time to their families, and the majority of them have nannies taking care of their children. An abundance of these women are very pro-choice and often defend women or make women out to be victims even though the women they defend are often the manipulating situations to look like victims.

They often times go straight to divorce and refuse to go through difficult times as a married couple, but rather take the easy out instead. Easy for them because women get payed to leave a marriage. It's no secret women initiate the majority of divorces. The main reason given is something so ridiculous like "irreconcilable differences." Really, what difference are so bad that you have to divorce over them? Not to mention, why marry someone whose views and beliefs don't align with yours in the first place. Marriage is a beautiful thing ordained by God. It is a union between a man and woman who are not only equally yoked but also two people who vow to be together through the most difficult of times. That is the purpose that God intended. Marriage isn't all sunshine and roses. It's about duty, responsibility, and being there for each other no matter what, for better or for worse. However, many people even so-called Christians only do for better or until the road gets a little rocky.

There seems to be a common theme between all three groups of women, and that is they have all been successfully brainwashed into thinking that the world revolves around them. When the world isn't revolving around them, they freak out and lash out. Unfortunately, a lot of this is seen on podcasts that feature women from different backgrounds, different political beliefs, and different religious beliefs. However, they once again show what they all have in common: and that is the lack of accountability, the need for their behinds to be kissed by men, and their hatred for something as beautiful as submission. For those that do submit, their version of submission is a type of submission that meets their approval. We are not to submit to our husbands if it meets our approval; we are just to submit and trust that we he is doing is right, not just for the wife but the whole family. Secular traditional women, new age Christian women, and liberal women have no intention on submitting to their husbands or making their lives easier unless everything he does is for them. Which is insane to me. Men work so hard to make women’s life easier because not only are they so benevolent, but they take their role as men, as protectors, providers, leaders, and chastisers very seriously. Oddly enough a lot of these men aren’t Christian but still take that role very seriously while women don't. Does that make sense, women?

Women for the past 60-plus years, refuse to do the bare minimal for the men they say they love. The men they chose to be with and be the father of their children. As true women of God, we have to be different from all secular women, regardless of their beliefs. We need to stop letting these brainwashed, miserable, and satan-loving woman tell us how to be Christians. We are called to be daughters of Sara. Sara referred to Abraham as lord, lowercase "l". Men have their roles and responsibilities, and if we want men to maintain that role, then we need to maintain our role as women. It doesn't matter what year it is and who is telling you what to do and how to act; we need to maintain what we believe and know to be true. What are you going to tell on God on judgement day? Oh, all the other women didn't listen to their husbands and they told me not to, so I didn't think it would be that bad to disrespect him and disobey You.

Women need to do better, stop acting like little naive girls, and start acting like real women and not children. Real women take accountability of their actions, do more than the bare minimum, admit their faults, apologize when they've been wrong, are forgiving, listen and speak less, are kind, genuine, respectful, have dignity, and so much more. The world doesn't revolve around you, and a lot about being a real woman, much like being a real man, is about sacrifice. The problem is, generally speaking, men take sacrifices in stride, whereas women make it seem as if concept of sacrificing is a male ideology, and they consider it sexist when they have to sacrifice something, like for their families.

A perfect example of women hating sacrifices is the show The Middle, the mom, Frankie, hated making sacrifices for her kids or would often take it as a nuisance. Where as the dad Mike accepted the sacrifices he had to make and the few times he pointed out that he did make a lot of sacrifices, Frankie kind of brushed it off or would get upset. That is women now in a nutshell. Imagine being a man sacrificing your safety for the safety of your family, sacrificing what you want for what is best for your family, and leading and making tough decisions only to get the brush off from your wife and sometimes even kids. However, I guess nothing that men do, in the minds of entitled brainwashed women compares to being pregnant for 9-10 months and then breastfeeding afterward. Even though giving birth is a blessing, not a punishment. Labor is difficult, but when the baby arrives, all that pain goes away see John 16:21.

"A woman giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come; but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of the joy that a child is born into the world."

Let's remember our role as women and be grateful that while it may be hard at times, it's very easy compared to what men have to go through. Since men do go through so much, we should be able to be there for them and support them as God told us to do. Being a wife and mom is the greatest thing a woman can be, and it should be taken in stride even through the most difficult of times.

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